The most important thing in life is how to handle people in life. It is difficult but not impossible. Nowadays people are drowning in information while starving for wisdom. People are knowledgeable but not educated.
Education( a word with all vowels) -really what is it? Education if to be defined in a single line is to choose and do right over wrong. We have to choose right over wrong in every aspect of life.
- The best way to handle people is to say “you are right”. People are looking for acceptance nowadays. They want someone who could listen to them and agree with them every time. Try this, it will work.
- The other way is to notice the person. Notice his eyes and hands movements as well while you are talking to that person. If his hands,eyes and words are in different directions then that person is lying to you. He is cheating you. Leave that person immediately as he will try to do that again. If you can’t leave him, avoid him.
- If a person is transparent to you, remain transparent to him. He will be your true friend. True friendship is a plant of slow growth. Slowly and slowly add water to your plant.
- Be courteous to all but trust none.
- If you want to help anyone, help! but don’t expect it back. The more you expect anything from anyone, the more you will be hurt.